or there’s a huge explosion and a bitter break up.
Although the instant feeling of psychic recognition and magical attraction feels like “soul mate”, it’s not. It’s karmic debt. These people are here literally to test the boundaries of your spiritual development, to challenge you to know who you are, and to be true to yourself.
So what is a “Soul Mate”? First and foremost, it should be a person with good “personal boundaries”, and it will be a person who’s energy compliments, not conflicts, with your own. But “compliment” does not mean “merge”. And consider this – you probably won’t be able to recognize what compliments rather than conflicts with your energy til you learn to recognize your own spiritual boundaries, and are able to rest comfortably in your own “psychic skin”. That’s when you’ll be able to view things from your “Higher Self”, which is your self separated from outside influences, your self resting comfortably within yourself, high above the maddening crowd.
Weejee’s Book of Shadows